The very thought of networking bothers me. Yet, here we are—and I’m writing about it. There must be something to it.
It bothers me because it can come across as shallow. Like when a new contact ends the conversation by saying, “Is there anything I can do to help you?” No—if there was, I’d let you know. Or when they say, “Ohh, you need to meet so-and-so.” No, I don’t. I’m good.
But the reality is, I do have a great network—I just never call it that. To me, these are friends, acquaintances, and even LinkedIn connections who provide insight and support. And I provide it to them too.
Since I’m no expert in networking, I did a bit of research. Turns out, there are four layers to it:
1. Personal Area Network (PAN)
A PAN in business thrives on close, trusted relationships. Mentors guide growth, colleagues and friends create opportunities, and family offers support. Referrals open doors, while authenticity and reputation build trust. Confidants provide advice and encouragement, forming a strong foundation for personal and professional success.
2. Local Area Network (LAN)

A LAN in business connects coworkers, managers, and departments through collaboration and shared culture. Feedback fosters growth, while influence shapes company direction. Opportunities arise through teamwork, and recognition reinforces contributions. A strong LAN enhances communication, strengthens relationships, and creates an environment where individuals and organizations succeed.
3. Metropolitan Area Network (MAN)
A MAN in business connects professionals within a region through associations, chambers, and industry events. Meetups, trade shows, and LinkedIn enhance visibility and foster partnerships. Engaging with the local community strengthens reputation, while referrals and collaborations create new opportunities, driving business growth and professional success.
4. Wide Area Network (WAN)
A WAN in business connects professionals on a national and global scale. Speaking engagements, publications, and social media build authority, while virtual events and influencers expand reach. Cross-border partnerships, branding, and scalability drive international growth. Investors and funding sources further support business expansion and long-term success.
Experts in networking emphasize the Four Cs—credibility, competence, clarity, and connectivity:

- Credibility – Built through honesty, reliability, and consistency. Keeping commitments, demonstrating integrity, and fostering trust ensure others view you as dependable. Strong ethics and authenticity reinforce long-term relationships.
- Competence – Showcased through expertise, skills, and knowledge. Continuous learning, experience, and problem-solving abilities establish your value. Demonstrating results and confidence in your work strengthens professional relationships and opportunities.
- Clarity – Ensures your message is understood. Clearly defining goals, articulating ideas concisely, and actively listening improve interactions. Being direct, transparent, and purposeful strengthens connections and influence.
- Connectivity – Expands your network by engaging with diverse professionals. Building meaningful relationships, staying accessible, and maintaining engagement foster opportunities. Strong connections enhance collaboration, knowledge sharing, and career growth.
If you’re reading this, you’re already part of that wide area network called LinkedIn. Some of you have even become part of my personal network too. Referrals and job opportunities come from our network. People who truly want to help are part of your network.
While I may hate the word networking, the simple fact is—after twenty years in this business—I have an amazing network, and I’m proud of it.
So, to close: What’s one thing you can do? Who’s that one person you should reach out to?
Do something.






